Every once in a while I have a session or experience that doesn’t go very well. Whatever Tribute I get from it, as a result, always feels tainted. I get really weird about putting that “bad energy” into my account.
Back when I was starting out, I’d spend the money frivolously. My first pairs of Manolo Blahniks were bought during a difficult trip out West. I’ve had a few lengthy, indulgent massages, as well, courtesy of a badly screened client or two. More recently, I’ve been setting aside yuck money to fund my IRA contributions, figuring getting it might hurt now, but this way it can help a lot later. Earlier this week, I had a pretty awful experience with a client that left me rather wrecked; afterwards, I sealed his payment in an envelope and set it aside while I decided what I wanted to do with it.
I arrived in Georgia today. My sister, a schoolteacher, lives here. This past school year, many of my clients generously donated Amazon and Barnes & Noble gift cards as well as books to her class so that she could build up her library for her students. The project was a phenomenal success. Tonight, I saw her school’s yearbook and again was just so impressed by how much she gives of herself to her students and how much they seem to appreciate it.
My sister and I had talked about what to do for the 2008-09 school year. She said that one thing that’s frustrated her as a teacher has been wanting to do activities with her students outside the school, but finding very little funding available for field trips. I watched her eyes light up as she described all the things she wanted to do with her students, many of whom have never been to a movie theater, much less a museum, aquarium, planetarium, or even a dance or theater performance.
So now I know what my little sealed envelope will be used for: I’m officially launching “Operation Field Trips” for my sister’s school. My goal is to raise enough money so that every student at her school will be able to go on at least one field trip this year. If you’d like to donate, send me an email and I’ll give you instructions on how to do it. I’ll also keep you posted here on our progress.
I think this is the start of something good.
If you would like to send a donation in the mail, you can address your envelope to:
P.O. Box 93973
Atlanta, GA 30377
If you’re writing a check or money order, make it payable to: “CIE” and in the memo put “CC Field Trip Fund.” I suggest cash be sent with a delivery confirmation.
If you include an email address, your gift will be acknowledged with a discreet personal note.
I would like to help, you have my email.
Thanks, Lee. I’ve sent you an email with more info.
I’ve become very fond of you and worry about your physical safety. This post brought that concern front and center for me. Athough I’m confident you can take pretty good care of yourself, I wonder if it wouldn’t make sense to have some kind of panic button that would summon help if you had a session turn yucky on you and you felt you were in physical danger or the asshole just wouldn’t leave. That has its pros and cons, but please think about it. I know somebody in that line of work that I could ask what he would install if it was his sister or daughter. Jack T.
Jack,
You’re very sweet. While I’m definitely interested in hearing your friend’s suggestions for some sort of safety set up, please be assured that this yucky experience was not one in which I felt remotely unsafe or threatened in any way. My feelings were hurt, not my body.
anonymous, that is funny and miss troy don’t know this’hope she does not get mad’she went away one time and I did not see her post anywhere for a couple of weeks,so I got worried and called her,she picked up,I hung up, what was I going to say. You don’t know me, but I was worried about you.
Sorry to hear about your bad experience.
You should get a paypal account for operation field trips!
Who knows! Maybe it will turn into a big yearly event! Like Comic Relief in the UK:)
I’d also like to help.
Sorry to hear about the stinky session, but so happy to hear about such a wonderful positive impact that comes out such experiences.
Awesome. Simply awesome.
Hey darlin.. I’m in too. I will get a check in the mail this week and I look forward to seeing you Saturday in NJ hon. I also want to torture the guy who hurt your feelings, and not in a fun way. Grrr! Love you … Suze