Sometimes I like to think that every time a play partner says to me, “You know, I thought I needed all that ‘trixy fetishstuff to have a good session, but you’ve proved to me that there’s more to it,” that somewhere an angel dominatrix gets to take off her Pleasers.
And put on a pair of Christian Louboutins?
(sorry, couldn’t resist.)
@jeffrey
Ha. Awesome. Exactly! (High end designer shoes ARE much more comfortable than the cheapos, though)
@axe
GIggle.
@hmp
When the connection’s there, it really doesn’t have to get all that complicated, does it?. Sometimes all the fetishwear acts for me like armor. I’ve noticed I tend to kit up the most when I’m feeling disconnected and/or energetically lazy. It’s like I’m saying, “Here, look at this. Not me.”
Atta boy Clarance.
LOL! That’s very sweet! At home I do plenty of “no frills” playing and it works just fine! 😉
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hmp
That’s been my exact experience with you. I am still surprised by it. I used to feel instant disappointment if I walked into a session and the domme wasn’t at least wearing high heels not to mention stockings. With you it doesn’t matter. Its interesting. I still have the fetish and I still always ask for other dommes to wear them when I see them. With you it doesn’t matter. I am always glad to see you and the play just flows from there. Still though the fetish is ever strong.
Take off her pleasers????? What the heck are they? Underpants or something?
This totally made me smile. Yep.
@ Tara
Yay!
@Jeffrey
Thanks for setting the monkey straight
@Louie Monkey Pest: Pleasers are brand of shoes, synonymous with stripper footwear.
A little Google goes a long way. 😉
So it means an angel dominatrix takes off her stripper shoes?????? What the heck is that suppose to mean? Its too many metaphors in one sentence.
@Louie Monkey Pest: Really? Here’s the simple version as I read it:
It sure is nice when a sub figures out that a domme doesn’t have to wear uncomfortable shoes (or “kit up” in general) to have a great session.
Hope this helps!