Here are a few sites that give me a thrill.
InSex M Yummy men in bondage, often getting hurt.
Device Bondage Makes me wish I knew how to build things
Infernal Restraints Makes me wish men were as lithe and flexible as women
Literotica When I feel the need… the need to read!
I use to susbcribe to the Insex website before it closed down. Pretty extreme stuff with none of the little segments you find on the kink websites that show consent beforehand and how everything ends well. I got the impression they may have pushed the envelope to far and closed down to avoid dealing with the Feds.
I also used to subscribe to the Insex site, and am a periodic subscriber to the ones you mention here.
I have somewhat mixed feelings, though.
Technically, their stuff is unquestionably remarkable, interesting, attractive, inspiring. But the dynamics feel to me to be sometimes pure technique, almost duty-like, for both players.
Far, so far, from the emotional high that for both that is so important to a good scene (IMHO)
See, this is the difference between my gaze and yours. I look at those sites purely technically. I rarely watch the videos (mostly for the reasons y’all cite … and that I want KINK. Not half-assed sex porn.). So when I’m scanning devicebondage or insexm, it’s to look at rigging, usually. I want to see the gear they’re using, the positions, set ups … and then bring that into my scenes and make my OWN KINK!