Q. I've read your site, our interests align, and I'm ready to say "Yes!" How do I request an appointment? 

A. You may submit the form on my Contact page or send an email to MTO at TroyOrleans.com. Your message must include:

  • Your name, state/country of residence, age, and health status/limitations
  • Years of experience, primary and secondary scene interests.
  • How you found my website (e.g. Eros ad, specific site link, domina directory, etc.)
  • Specific day(s)/time(s) you're available to meet and your preferred session duration
  • Name(s) of at least one professional, independent Mistress for verification/reference.

If your message does not adequately address ALL of the above in a grammatically sound, spellchecked, and respectful fashion, it is unlikely that I will reply.

Q. But I'm new to BDSM and don't have any references. Also, do you do ____? I don't see it mentioned on your site.

A. While I'm honored you would like to begin your kinky journey with me, I only accept established players with verifiable references. Please visit my Links page for a list of Mistresses I recommend.

This website, my blog, Twitter, Instagram, and Tumblr provide a full and accurate description of what I like to do. If you don't see it anywhere, I probably don't offer it.

Q. Do you accept personal slaves, video/photo subs, or houseboys? 

A. Not exactly. My Patron option was created for those who wish to serve me in a more evolved, engaged, and specific way than the traditional "personal slave." I choose my models, demo subs, and houseboys from among my Patrons who desire such roles. Read more about becoming a Patron here. 

Q. Where are you located? Is it a private studio? It's important you're discreet.

A. My personal studio, Salon d'Orleans, is a private, very well equipped space in Midtown Manhattan, a few blocks south of the Empire State Building. It is convenient to the N/R/B/D/F/Q/1/6 subway lines, the PATH, Grand Central, and Penn stations.  LaGuardia and JFK airports are, respectively, 30- and 45-minutes by car, traffic permitting. There are at least two pay parking lots within two blocks and street parking after 6pm.

Salon d'Orleans is a private, single-use space in a mixed use building. Your entry will be unnoticed and unremarkable. Our time together will be unrushed and, more importantly, uninterrupted. Your privacy is of utmost importance: I can provide you with a signed confidentiality agreement on request.

Q. I'd love to have another submissive, one of your vanilla girlfriends, or another Domme join our scene. Is that possible? 

A. Absolutely! A list of Mistresses I know personally and prefer to play with is featured on my Links page. I also have female submissives and vanilla girlfriends who would be delighted to join us. I love orchestrating multi-player scenes: tell me what you have in mind!

Q. Do you offer outcalls or will you travel? 

A. While I love playing at Salon d'Orleans, I can make an unforgettable scene happen pretty much anywhere. I'm a frequent flyer with status, a well-worn passport, and a talent for finding the best restaurants wherever I go. 

If we've played together before, I invite you to request my company at your finer hotel in Manhattan or anywhere in the world. I also plan travel to session in other cities, most frequently Los Angeles/San Francisco, New Orleans, Miami, and London, though I will happily add other destinations to my itinerary with enough interest.  Read more about Travel options here and get travel updates by signing up for my newsletter (see below), checking my blog/Twitter, or looking for me on your local Eros Guide.