Whence “Kinky”?

June 30, 2008philosophy, Read 48 Comments

Recently I’ve found myself saying to people, “I’m not kinky.” The last person I said that to replied: You’re not real kinky??? Hahaha. You’re kidding me, right? You are soooooo hard-wired kinky you don’t know any different is all. Yes, one person’s kink is another person’s everyday thought. This is a possibility. I’d always maintained … Read More

You’d think I’d be all over this …

June 26, 2008Read 3 Comments

Tea, Maid in Manhattan. I dunno. I could see it getting worked into an OE sometime. Maybe with the right client. However, these days, I’m more obsessed with getting a reservation at Momofuku Ko. It is notoriously hard to get into. Basically, you have to register on the reservation site then start jockeying at 9:58AM … Read More

Got This Far

June 21, 2008origins, Read 5 Comments

Y’know, sometimes after a really intense scene, I’ll look around my studio at all the gear and equipment and just marvel that I’m here at all. I mean, I became a ProDomme so I could learn how to use a spreader bar. Seriously. I’d been playing with this guy, Z, I’d met through a mutual … Read More

Riding the Internet Rails

June 19, 2008Read 2 Comments

Tonight I was IM’ing with a friend who pointed me to Reverse Cowgirl’s blog. As I scrolled through, I noticed a photo she’d posted by Stephen Meisel. It looked like Madonna with long hair pissing on Naomi Campbell. I clicked on the pic and ended up at a collection of images from Madonna’s infamous “Sex” … Read More