I was trying to write a post about lust and couldn’t get myself in the headspace. Maybe it was because I’d actually written the post already in an Upper West Side cafe, even though I don’t write well in restaurants. But I overcame the melodramatic young girl talking nonstop and eating her hot chocolate with … Read More
philosophy
Limits
Maybe it’s unfair of me, but I’m always amused when new clients offer up their “hard limits,” usually unsolicited, when requesting an appointment. Often they’ll say things like “no cross dressing” or “no scat,” which brings a “where did THAT come from?!” frown to my face since there’s nothing on my site to indicate that … Read More
What I Do
I’m trying to make more blog posts. I found this on Mistress Varla’s Tumblr. It’s not too far off. I’d say my friends think I … jet set. Like, I’m always traveling, going out to fancy restaurants, that kind of thing. My family, most of them at least, think I have my own business (and … Read More
Help Wanted
The thing about letting too much time go between posts is that at first you think you have nothing to say, and then you think there’s too much to say and then you go back and forth between those two until you start wondering why you’re blogging in the first place and thinking about maybe … Read More
Layering
This was originally posted on MaxFisch. Since not all of you read the boards there, I figured I’d cross post. Hope you don’t mind. Recently I played with someone whom I knew to be a fairly experienced corporal bottom (he’d even appeared in several videos) but was seeing me specifically for bondage. Since we had … Read More