Just now, I was reading the comments on a previous blog post and smiled when I read the response submitted by the subject of the post, particularly this: “She certainly shocked the shit out of me with her offer. I knew she was serious too. That’s how she is.” Coincidentally, earlier this morning, another play … Read More
Someone I’d only seen a couple of times before — and one of those times was back in my babydomme days at Luxuria — contacted me about a bondage-centric OE. From his emails, it was obvious he was in a fevered, ravenous state. Ultra restrictive bondage! Abandonment! What’s the longest we can play?!!?!! Aww, puppy. … Read More
I was standing in the middle of a dungeon/art gallery/something, talking with a friend when a man approached me and asked, “Anything I can do for you?” In a BDSM setting, such inquiries invariably rub me the wrong way. Anything? The word is loaded with expectation. It weighs on me. It imposes. “Anything,” he says. … Read More
His hands were tied to the bondage chair with just enough slack. Or maybe not. I handed him a small vibrator, shaped like a long, thin cigar. “Make yourself come,” I ordered. He strained. He groaned. I waited. “I’m going to disappoint you,” he gasped. “It won’t be the first time,” I teased, taking the … Read More
Was browsing around on my new iPad (YAY!) and found this article from the Boston Globe about how we enjoy vacations. Not only did I discover there’s a branch of science called "hedonic psychology" (what an awesome field! Reminds me of how I used "pleasure writer" to describe my freelance work), but it also may explain … Read More