Sometimes I like to think that every time a play partner says to me, “You know, I thought I needed all that ‘trixy fetishstuff to have a good session, but you’ve proved to me that there’s more to it,” that somewhere an angel dominatrix gets to take off her Pleasers.
philosophy
This Means Something: An Epiphany
I got my first email from Easter Bunny (er, not his real name…I’ll explain the nick in a moment) in December, prompted by a PM I’d sent him on Max in response to a post he’d made there. He said he’d been following me for sometime after realizing that I was, like him, a serious … Read More
Stillness
One of the bigger challenges I face in my practice is trusting when to keep things simple. Some of it is just having so many amazing toys to play with: Add an inspiring, willing man and, well, we could go all night. Often, we do. But the other part is more about my own headspace. … Read More
Coming Together
One of the things I love about my practice is that a lot of the people I play with are gear addicts just like me. Since many aren’t in a situation where they can shop for gear at home, they’ll often have things sent to me or I’ll order it on their behalf for a … Read More
Masocast! Now Featuring MTO!
Not sure I’m all that crazy about the title … BUT you can hear my interview with Unspeakable Axe on the Masocast. You can listen to me talk about the secret entrance to Salon d’Orleans, why I’m dying for someone to beat me, the “first” thing I kink on, being a dating dork, the guiche … Read More