He wasn’t a total novice. He’d sessioned three times before coming to me, each time with a different Mistress for no longer than two hours. He lives at least a two hour train ride away. Said he really wanted to explore heavy bondage and abandonment. Asked if he could be considered for the Orleans Experience. … Read More
philosophy
Fantasy and Asshattery
Many of you know I participate — with diminishing pleasure — on the MaxFisch discussion board. In fact, I hadn’t been posting here so much last week because I was busy tending to a very interesting discussion of the role of fantasy in a professional session. There were some rather thoughtful responses to my initial … Read More
So about that thing with Spitzer….
For those of you who are interested in the perspective of a high-end escort, there’s a pretty interesting Q&A in the NYTimes with one of the Freakonomics guys and a woman named “Allie.” I also recommend the links and perspective given on the Sex Workers’ blog “Bound Not Gagged.” There’s also a fairly comprehensive and … Read More
Good to Know: Gags and Blindfolds by SxySadist
My dear friend and comrade in kink Suzanne SxySadist had a great blog post yesterday about blindfolds and gags. It’s the February 22, 2008 entry here: http://blog.myspace.com/suzanne_sxysadist It’s really great timing in part because the issue of basic safety measures and “SM-101” type lessons has been forward in my mind of late. It just seems … Read More
Perhaps You’ve Heard This One Before ….
Philber’s comment on my “This is the Life Style” post reminded me of one of my favorite anecdotes of last year: While traveling last summer I met a 50-something Italian who was living in Central America. He’d offered to take me to a beautiful, remote beach — one I’d never find without a local’s help … Read More