A young woman in Virginia who’s training to be a dominatrix blind-emailed me the other day asking for my advice on acquiring certain skill sets. She said she wanted to cultivate her “Bitch Goddess persona” and I replied that “personas” aren’t really a part of my play dynamic. “My focus is on bondage, corporal, and … Read More
philosophy
S/M Corporal Play
Many of my masochistically-inclined clients have expressed a desire at some point in our journey together to be able to take more pain or a heavier beating for me. To those clients, I’ve always replied that it’s not the intensity of the beating that makes the experience pleasurable for me, but rather the journey itself. … Read More
Something Beautiful
I was looking at the photo galleries on a friend’s rope bondage site today and was reminded of what is so beautiful about what we do and why some of us choose to breathe in this world. If you’re really into rope, send me a note and I’ll give you the link. The other day … Read More