Clients often ask me if I switch or bottom. It’s weird to me how much of a stigma that carries in the realm of prodomination. So many men say they seek submission/surrender because they are so alpha/dominant/in control in their non-scene life, they seek a Dominant for balance. Why aren’t ProDominas afforded the same concession? … Read More
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Ephemera
At Restoration Hardware they’re selling electric bug paddles for under $15. I almost bought a bouquet of them to pass out to all my Domme friends but then realized I’d have a helluva time transporting it on my bike. He stopped by to pick up a bag he’d inadvertently left after a party. My friend … Read More
I Wish This Were My Ad
This ad was found on Craig’s List, of all places. I’ve been contemplating placing an ad on CL recently. Were I not such a pragmatist, this would be my ad. My, how I love a man with a flair for the romantidramatic. I’ve been trying to think of ways to spice up my life. I’m … Read More
Fireworks
He was strapped down firmly to the bondage table. Ratchet straps tight across his chest, abdomen, thighs and calves; a leather ring gag stretching his mouth in an open O. Above him, a naked woman suspended in rope, rigged to the tracking beam, her body parallel to his. Standing beside them, I slid the violet … Read More
Whence “Kinky”?
Recently I’ve found myself saying to people, “I’m not kinky.” The last person I said that to replied: You’re not real kinky??? Hahaha. You’re kidding me, right? You are soooooo hard-wired kinky you don’t know any different is all. Yes, one person’s kink is another person’s everyday thought. This is a possibility. I’d always maintained … Read More