For those of you who are interested in the perspective of a high-end escort, there’s a pretty interesting Q&A in the NYTimes with one of the Freakonomics guys and a woman named “Allie.” I also recommend the links and perspective given on the Sex Workers’ blog “Bound Not Gagged.” There’s also a fairly comprehensive and … Read More
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Totally Off-Topic: Passing Strange
My music geek friend charmed me into going to a Broadway show last Wednesday night. It was a musical. I hate Broadway musicals. Vehemently. But I like my friend, so I said okay. Calling “Passing Strange” a Broadway musical is kinda like calling me a “dominatrix.” It is. I am. But neither label really does … Read More
Inspirations
The delightfully demented Mistress Saskia led me to Occasional Hell’s Infernal Device, an incredible site cataloging a variety of historical torture devices. I’m particularly enraptured by the Iron Gag (aka Mute’s Bridle), Heretic’s Fork, and Chain Whip, to name a few. I may need to talk with MetalBound. Sigh.
Bondage: A Study in Constriction, Restriction
In case you didn’t know, I love bondage. Rope bondage is one of my favorites, especially when I can use a combination of implements and ties to immobilize and/or create predicaments, such as this combination of modified hogtie, anal hook, and bamboo poles: Leather bondage is huge fun, too. Somehow it seems that many of … Read More
Above the Clouds
I spent most of the past week skiing in Oregon. I don’t get to ski all that often, so when I do it’s really treasured. Especially when there are views like this. I’m somewhere underneath all the headgear. Even on the slopes, I’m an equipment junkie. Ha!Anyway, all that to say: I’m back in New … Read More