Good to Know: Gags and Blindfolds by SxySadist

February 23, 2008dommes, philosophy, Read 1 Comment

My dear friend and comrade in kink Suzanne SxySadist had a great blog post yesterday about blindfolds and gags. It’s the February 22, 2008 entry here: http://blog.myspace.com/suzanne_sxysadist It’s really great timing in part because the issue of basic safety measures and “SM-101” type lessons has been forward in my mind of late. It just seems … Read More

Work Out

February 17, 2008Read, wishlist 1 Comment

While I was in Barcelona, I decided I’d go with MB for his daily gym routine. Our hotel gave us access to a great fitness club and I had this fantasy of doing 30 min. of cardio every day and coming home with maybe a little less “luggage.” Didn’t work. I’d forgotten that I tend … Read More

Hoover

February 16, 2008play, Read, scenes 6 Comments

A long-time scene friend was sitting at my kitchen table a few weeks ago. I fixed some popcorn and tea to munch and sip while we caught up. When he’d say something saucy or outrageous, I’d peg him with a kernel. Popcorn crumbs sprinkled the hardwood floor like snow. He sighed, “I always wondered what … Read More

I Love Barcelona — In Pictures

February 15, 2008Read, Travel 1 Comment

Got four hours of sleep before my flight and, technically, I’ve been up for ….oh, 19 hours straight now. So I’m a little too looped to actually write anything. But here are some pretty pictures. This is a Time Out Barcelona cover. I tried to MMS it to a Domme friend of mine who loves … Read More

Safety in Numbers

February 11, 2008clients, dommes, Read 15 Comments

As a community, we´re all pretty shaken by the recent tragedy at The Nutcracker Suite/Nutcracker AfterHours. Several of my colleagues have emailed me: in Barcelona, sans laptop, and no NYPosts in sight, I thank them for letting me know. One of the more frustrating aspects of this incident is the obvious misjudgments of the House, … Read More