My long-ago ex-boyfriend knew the rules: As long as he got my birthday right, he’d get a pass on every other (bullshit) holiday. Christmas, anniversaries, vacation-friendly holiday weekends…and most of all, Valentine’s Day. Ironically, of all of those, next to Christmas, which I haven’t participated in since I was 18, my least important holiday has … Read More
There are more kinky posts brewing, I promise (see my recent Formspring replies for hints on what I’ll be writing about). But in the meantime, please familiarize yourself with the etiquette rules in this very charming little primer. http://shelovesny.com/etiquette/home.html I remember finding this thing *years* ago and  being so incredibly delighted by it: I know … Read More
Someone asked me a generic question about gags via email. I thought my reply was worth sharing and figured I’d just quote it here, but as I started filling in some blanks, it turned into an actual blog post! Holy Accidental Blogging, Batman! (Y’all should thank him. I am.) So without further ado, a few … Read More
There’ve been some great things, kinky and not, that I’ve been enjoying lately on the Internet. Thought I’d share a few of them with you. I love the physicality expressed in many of these images taken between 1950-1970 for an Asian bondage club. While most of the pictures are of tied up young women, there … Read More
This was originally posted on MaxFisch. Since not all of you read the boards there, I figured I’d cross post. Hope you don’t mind. Recently I played with someone whom I knew to be a fairly experienced corporal bottom (he’d even appeared in several videos) but was seeing me specifically for bondage. Since we had … Read More