Wow. Just wow. This birthday was probably my best ever. I’ve been utterly humbled and blown away by all the love and enthusiasm and positivity and support sent my way during this celebration. Thank you so much to all of you who directly contributed to making my birthday AMAZING: Cards, flowers, emails, texts, and gifts. … Read More
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Make My Birthday AMAZING!
There’s nothing like a milestone birthday to prompt a taking stock of life: what you’ve done, what you’re doing, what’s ahead. I’ve been exploring the BDSM scene for nearly ten years, most of those years as a professional dominant. It’s been an incredibly fulfilling experience being able to play and connect so positively with so … Read More
Anything
I was standing in the middle of a dungeon/art gallery/something, talking with a friend when a man approached me and asked, “Anything I can do for you?” In a BDSM setting, such inquiries invariably rub me the wrong way. Anything? The word is loaded with expectation. It weighs on me. It imposes. “Anything,” he says. … Read More
A VIP Shoe Experience
Ok. I’m just going to put it out there. I want a shoe slave. I know, I know I have gone on at length about how I don’t do foot/shoe sessions but I’ve never said it’s because I don’t like them. I love shoes. LOVE them. And, honestly, I actually love having my feet and … Read More
Coming Together
One of the things I love about my practice is that a lot of the people I play with are gear addicts just like me. Since many aren’t in a situation where they can shop for gear at home, they’ll often have things sent to me or I’ll order it on their behalf for a … Read More