AMAZING!!! THANK YOU!

January 15, 2011birthday, clients, Read, thanks, wishlist No Comments

Wow. Just wow. This birthday was probably my best ever. I’ve been utterly humbled and blown away by all the love and enthusiasm and positivity and support sent my way during this celebration. Thank you so much to all of you who directly contributed to making my birthday AMAZING: Cards, flowers, emails, texts, and gifts. … Read More

Make My Birthday AMAZING!

December 27, 2010birthday, clients, Read, thanks, wishlist 6 Comments

There’s nothing like a milestone birthday to prompt a taking stock of life: what you’ve done, what you’re doing, what’s ahead. I’ve been exploring the BDSM scene for nearly ten years, most of those years as a professional dominant. It’s been an incredibly fulfilling experience being able to play and connect so positively with so … Read More

Anything

October 16, 2010clients, philosophy, Read, wishlist 12 Comments

I was standing in the middle of a dungeon/art gallery/something, talking with a friend when a man approached me and asked, “Anything I can do for you?” In a BDSM setting, such inquiries invariably rub me the wrong way. Anything? The word is loaded with expectation. It weighs on me. It imposes. “Anything,” he says. … Read More