Anything

October 16, 2010clients, philosophy, Read, wishlist 12 Comments

I was standing in the middle of a dungeon/art gallery/something, talking with a friend when a man approached me and asked, “Anything I can do for you?” In a BDSM setting, such inquiries invariably rub me the wrong way. Anything? The word is loaded with expectation. It weighs on me. It imposes. “Anything,” he says. … Read More

What He Said…

August 20, 2010clients, play, Read, scenes, What They Say 3 Comments

Based on the comments to my recent post “Win-Win,” it seemed there was some interest in hearing his side of the story. So I asked him to share it with you. I’ve made some light copyedits for grammar and clarity. You might also want to check out his reply in the comments of the original … Read More

Cut

August 12, 2010life-styled, Read 9 Comments

I cut my finger this morning. I was trying to cut the broken safety ring off the bleach cap and wasn’t listening to the little voice in my head telling me that I was gonna end up cutting myself. So the serrated knife slips and jams into the lower side of my left index finger, … Read More

Win-Win

August 6, 2010corporal, play, Read, scenes 14 Comments

I knew he wanted it. He certainly knew not to ask me for it, though. Even to suggest it risked dismissal and he definitely didn’t want that. But sometimes when we’d meet, he’d mention how he’d found an escort who also offered domination, at least that’s what her website said, and he was going to … Read More