Was creeped out yesterday by a caller who, as soon as I answered the phone, launched into a thorough introduction, saying he’d seen my ad in DDI and was interested in the “Irresistible Bondage” and “Electrifying Edge Play” it mentions and that he was looking for someone who is a “sadist.” “Great!” I said. “Can … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
There’s Always a Threat
His hands were tied to the bondage chair with just enough slack. Or maybe not. I handed him a small vibrator, shaped like a long, thin cigar. “Make yourself come,” I ordered. He strained. He groaned. I waited. “I’m going to disappoint you,” he gasped. “It won’t be the first time,” I teased, taking the … Read More
Now THIS is a Shoe Fetish
Video unashamedly cadged this from the delightful fetishist Aarkeybabble. In thinking about posting this, I was reminded of a blog post I saw the other day on Jezebel about women and shoes. I think most of you know that my entrance to the rabbit hole of kink (oh, I do loathe that “rabbit hole” phrase … Read More
Best. Vacation. Ever.
Was browsing around on my new iPad (YAY!) and found this article from the Boston Globe about how we enjoy vacations. Not only did I discover there’s a branch of science called "hedonic psychology" (what an awesome field! Reminds me of how I used "pleasure writer" to describe my freelance work), but it also may explain … Read More
What Yes Looks Like – Part 3
After trying to write a post about failed scenes, and then trying to create a post that included a gallery of images from things I’ve been doing the past month — in hopes of making an excuse for not posting for so long and baiting you with LOTS of (mostly) kinky pictures so that you’ll … Read More
Ephemera
First, some Important News! I’ve taken on an apprentice. She will be training with me over the next few weeks, observing and participating in some sessions under my guidance. We work wonderfully well together. Already she’s proven to have exceptional instincts as a dominant and is exploring bondage, particularly rope, tease and denial, corporal punishment and … Read More