One of the bigger challenges I face in my practice is trusting when to keep things simple. Some of it is just having so many amazing toys to play with: Add an inspiring, willing man and, well, we could go all night. Often, we do. But the other part is more about my own headspace. … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
Coming Together
One of the things I love about my practice is that a lot of the people I play with are gear addicts just like me. Since many aren’t in a situation where they can shop for gear at home, they’ll often have things sent to me or I’ll order it on their behalf for a … Read More
Earth. Water. Air.
I spent the last week of 2009 on a private sailboat touring the San Blas Islands archipelago on the Caribbean coast of Panama. Aside from a couple of times racing sailboats (with the same people) when I was in high school, I’d never really been sailing before — like, sleeping on the boat, sailing from … Read More
Odds. Ends.
As many of you know, it’s my holiday tradition to skip the holidays . I’ll be away, no Mac, no Crack(berry) for two weeks. Should you try to call, email, or text me, please know that I will not know anything about it until January 7 at the earliest. Until then, please enjoy the latest … Read More
He Said, He Said, She Said…Part 3
Thanks, y’all, for your patience with this final installment of “He Said, He Said, She Said.” With my computer transition (I got a Mac right after Thanksgiving and have been having an unusually difficult time in the conversion process) and plenty of work and life demanding my focused attention, it’s been difficult to do the … Read More
MTO. FetLife Pimp
I sat on Santa’s lap at FetLife (Hey, Santa! Stop poking my butt with that thing or I’ll piss on you! Wait. You’d probably like that, huh?) and they promised me if I was a good girl and told everyone about the prizes being given away, I might actually get the pressies I asked for! … Read More