It’s rare for me to browse gear sites because, well, I need more gear like I need prostate exam. But as I tripped around the web today, I stumbled upon the SexandMetal.com site and found this fantastic suspendable steel cage. What I especially like is that when it’s not holding you in the air, it’d … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
Scrabble for Cheaters! UPDATED
I am signed up to play in a Scrabble battle of epic proportions this weekend (April 6), against actor Peter Dinklage, Judge John Hodgman, comedian Michael Showalter, playwright Jonathan Marc Sherman, musician A.C. Newman, and comedian David Rees! (But we know who the real celebrity is, now don’t we?!) 826NYC will host its 6th Annual … Read More
The Big Reveal
My dear friend and colleague in kink, Mistress Wynter, wrote a really great blog post recently about toeing that line between telling you everything and telling you “everything.” In her post, she candidly acknowledged the difference between what you want to know and what she honestly wants to talk about, between the image we, as prodommes, feel … Read More
Close Enough
His email — brief, needy, throbbing, and barely coherent — pushed into my inbox with about as much appeal as a catcall from the sidewalk. I should have ignored it, just like I had his previous three, since I don’t want to encourage this undesirable behavior, but I didn’t. My casual invitation was a combination … Read More
Birthday!
Today is my birthday. Thanks to those of you who took the time to help me celebrate with a special gift, note, or call. It means a lot to me. Last night, I celebrated by taking the select, amazing women who rent from me out to dinner to thank them for being such talented, inspiring, … Read More
Ask MTO: Roundup
There’s a pileup of questions over on Formspring, most of which are questions about whether I’m going to write a blog post, inquiries about my redecorating project at Salon d’Orleans, and wondering about my travels. All of which are kinda time sensitive…