He’d been on “at will” chastity for over a week, mostly at his own counsel, though three days before he was due to see me, I emailed him in response and said, “I love it when I can occupy a man’s mind without ever having even met him. Dare I make myself even more present … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
Because I’m the Dominant, That’s Why!
I often find myself challenging a lot of what’s considered “dominant” behavior. I rarely kit up in fetish clothes (ironically, most of that ‘trixy gear is so demanding to wear, I end up feeling like I’m submitting to it). I’ll sit on the floor at his feet while I tell him all the tortureful things … Read More
Whatcha Want?
It’s not at all unusual for me to ask a client, “So, what are you in the mood for today?”It’s also not unusual for the client to respond, “Uh, I dunno. Whatever you’d like to do, Mistress.” While I appreciate the verbal carte blanche, the thing is … well, if there was something I was … Read More
Zero to 60
Clients are an interesting bunch. For every man who tells me that he wishes he could take more pain or marks or just fantasizes about giving me the pleasure of not holding back, there’s another who worries that I won’t have fun playing with him because I’m such a “heavy player” and his pain tolerance … Read More
Some Serious Bondage!
I’ve referenced the JGLeather’s Bubbler Bondage scene on Serious Bondage a few times on this blog and elsewhere. Tonight, I finally got to recreate it for myself. The big dilemma was whether to use a leather or latex straitjacket. My client has a fetish for both. I, however, have a fetish for bondage, so I … Read More
The Best of Me
He’s from Southern California. A dozen or so Dommes have notched his belt before me. This is our first visit. I tie him to a chair and rest my bare feet in his crotch while we chat. “Tonight, you’ll get the best of me,” I whisper in his ear. I sheath his cock in leather, … Read More