I was strolling from the chiropractor’s near the Museum of Natural History, down to Magnolia Bakery’s UWS outpost and stopped by Housing Works just to see what kind of stuff they had. A few weeks ago, I’d browsed the wares at the Chelsea store and marveled at how many leather skirts were on sale there. … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
How I Spent My Week
If you’ve been wondering why you haven’t gotten a reply to your email, well, I’ve been kinda busy. Eighties Baby was back for a Basic Lockdown Overnight. We did a few setups, beginning with a straitjacket/leg sack sling spring suspension (that I forgot to get my camera out for). I stored him for the night … Read More
Don’t Say I Didn’t Warn You
In my last post, I talked about how clients are often concerned that I play too heavy/hard for them. That I will give them more pain than they can handle. That I’m too sadistic. That’s not what you need to worry about. What you need to prepare yourself for is that I will definitely get … Read More
(Un)Necessary Roughness: Too Hard or Too Soft?
(I meant to continue yesterday’s post with some thoughts about my clients and heavy play but I couldn’t quite seem to make the transitions work. Still can’t. So. Uh. Zoom Zoom.) Sometimes I get prospective clients who contact me fretting that, based on my MF Reviews or scene descriptions they’ve read on my blog, that … Read More
Necessary Roughness
Clients often ask me if I switch or bottom. It’s weird to me how much of a stigma that carries in the realm of prodomination. So many men say they seek submission/surrender because they are so alpha/dominant/in control in their non-scene life, they seek a Dominant for balance. Why aren’t ProDominas afforded the same concession? … Read More
Ephemera
At Restoration Hardware they’re selling electric bug paddles for under $15. I almost bought a bouquet of them to pass out to all my Domme friends but then realized I’d have a helluva time transporting it on my bike. He stopped by to pick up a bag he’d inadvertently left after a party. My friend … Read More