This ad was found on Craig’s List, of all places. I’ve been contemplating placing an ad on CL recently. Were I not such a pragmatist, this would be my ad. My, how I love a man with a flair for the romantidramatic. I’ve been trying to think of ways to spice up my life. I’m … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
Fireworks
He was strapped down firmly to the bondage table. Ratchet straps tight across his chest, abdomen, thighs and calves; a leather ring gag stretching his mouth in an open O. Above him, a naked woman suspended in rope, rigged to the tracking beam, her body parallel to his. Standing beside them, I slid the violet … Read More
Whence “Kinky”?
Recently I’ve found myself saying to people, “I’m not kinky.” The last person I said that to replied: You’re not real kinky??? Hahaha. You’re kidding me, right? You are soooooo hard-wired kinky you don’t know any different is all. Yes, one person’s kink is another person’s everyday thought. This is a possibility. I’d always maintained … Read More
You’d think I’d be all over this …
Tea, Maid in Manhattan. I dunno. I could see it getting worked into an OE sometime. Maybe with the right client. However, these days, I’m more obsessed with getting a reservation at Momofuku Ko. It is notoriously hard to get into. Basically, you have to register on the reservation site then start jockeying at 9:58AM … Read More
They’re here! They’re here!
So I know I said I wasn’t going to buy any new gear until after summer but two people — one anonymous and one not — generously purchased a few things for me recently. Now it’s all arrived. First was the Studio Gum Multifunction Mask. This piece is sick. Heavy rubber hood with a zip … Read More
Got This Far
Y’know, sometimes after a really intense scene, I’ll look around my studio at all the gear and equipment and just marvel that I’m here at all. I mean, I became a ProDomme so I could learn how to use a spreader bar. Seriously. I’d been playing with this guy, Z, I’d met through a mutual … Read More