Sites that Excite Me

March 18, 2008good stuff, Read 3 Comments

Here are a few sites that give me a thrill. InSex M Yummy men in bondage, often getting hurt. Device Bondage Makes me wish I knew how to build things Infernal Restraints Makes me wish men were as lithe and flexible as women Literotica When I feel the need… the need to read!

Fantasy and Asshattery

March 16, 2008MaxFisch, philosophy, Read 6 Comments

Many of you know I participate — with diminishing pleasure — on the MaxFisch discussion board. In fact, I hadn’t been posting here so much last week because I was busy tending to a very interesting discussion of the role of fantasy in a professional session. There were some rather thoughtful responses to my initial … Read More

When Sadists Scrabble

March 15, 2008dommes, Read 1 Comment

MVX and I played Scrabble today. It wasn’t intentional … but look how many kink-related words are on the board. I need to get out more. (My score by the way? 461)

So about that thing with Spitzer….

March 13, 2008clients, philosophy, Read 2 Comments

For those of you who are interested in the perspective of a high-end escort, there’s a pretty interesting Q&A in the NYTimes with one of the Freakonomics guys and a woman named “Allie.” I also recommend the links and perspective given on the Sex Workers’ blog “Bound Not Gagged.” There’s also a fairly comprehensive and … Read More

Totally Off-Topic: Passing Strange

March 7, 2008good stuff, Read No Comments

My music geek friend charmed me into going to a Broadway show last Wednesday night. It was a musical. I hate Broadway musicals. Vehemently. But I like my friend, so I said okay. Calling “Passing Strange” a Broadway musical is kinda like calling me a “dominatrix.” It is. I am. But neither label really does … Read More