He’d stopped by on his way to the office so that I could lock him into his chastity cage until our session the next day, roughly 24 hours later. For the past two days he’d been on voluntary chastity. No masturbation. No touching. No orgasms. “One of these days I’d like to wear this longer,” … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
Just So You Know
Fetters is having a sale. They’re offering 15% off most of their items. If you ask nice, perhaps Mr. Fetters’ll add on the Orleans 10% discount to your order for even more savings. (Not saying you have to order stuff for me.) Among what’s given me acquisitive fever:The mailsackSpiked inflatable zipper jockInflatable flat palm mitts … Read More
A Useful Font
Thanks to Orange Sauce for sending me this link. Never was much of a clothespin enthusiast. This might change my mind.
Sticks in Stones
Some of you may remember the mangina pics from a while ago. Well, I decided to do it again. (Ah, see this is why I shouldn’t be discussing play on my blog … just revealing myself for the repetitive Domme I am. *sigh*) Actually, this time was a little different. No manginas. I did a … Read More
Perhaps You’ve Heard This One Before ….
Philber’s comment on my “This is the Life Style” post reminded me of one of my favorite anecdotes of last year: While traveling last summer I met a 50-something Italian who was living in Central America. He’d offered to take me to a beautiful, remote beach — one I’d never find without a local’s help … Read More
This is the Life Style, in Two Parts
A young woman in Virginia who’s training to be a dominatrix blind-emailed me the other day asking for my advice on acquiring certain skill sets. She said she wanted to cultivate her “Bitch Goddess persona” and I replied that “personas” aren’t really a part of my play dynamic. “My focus is on bondage, corporal, and … Read More