Two weeks ago when every other day seemed to be filled with rain, I found myself in midtown without an umbrella. I had one when I left the house that morning, but somehow didn’t bring it with me when I went to meet Mistress Morgana at the NY Public Library. A block after saying goodbye … Read More
Bondage & BDSM, MTO Updates, and Kinky Thoughts
Ask MTO: Coveted Devices, Scheduling
Knowing that you stay on top of the newest BDSM Devices and Implements etc. that are out there is there anything that has caught your eye or is there anything thats been out there that you would love to put in your Cabinet of Goodies ? Electroplay..Which would you choose for a shocking experience?
Good to Know
I’ve been a little quiet lately, in part because I was too busy enjoying the sun and sea (and a few deliciously kinky play partners) down in Miami … but there’s definitely been a lot going on! First of all, I’m very pleased to announce that Salon d’Orleans is hosting San Francisco’s legendary Mistress Morgana through the end of May.
Body Parts
My dear friend and colleague Mistress Wynter recently announced she’d be teaching a class today about “hands on sadism” — basically how to play with little more than what you were born with — and asked the folks on Max Fisch about their experiences playing without implements. The first thing that came to my mind was … Read More
Ask MTO: Day Dreams
Obviously, any sub would love to spend a day in the Pound, but what does that do for you? I think too much of me would fixate on “Is she getting bored?” to really enjoy it for myself. The idea of extended bondage and, based on my limited experience with actual extended bondage play — e.g. held captive in The Pound or fixed/suspended in a body bag with little to no interaction or active “play” with me — is so exciting and compelling and so the opposite of boring!
Ask MTO: Love and Marriage
I’m guessing most of your clients are married men. How does that inform your personal view on men and relationships? My only judgement when it comes to married men and play/sessioning is that sometimes I don’t think the men give their spouses enough credit as far as what their wives desire or what they might be open to as far as kink. I believe every marriage has room for some kink