Ask MTO: Gadgets

March 1, 2012Ask MTO, Gear, Furniture, and Equipment, Geargasm, Read 3 Comments

Are there any new Toys or Gadgets out there that have caught your eye or any that you have gotten your hands on that are worth mentioning ?

I’ve been on a bit of a buying moratorium of late — I don’t think anyone would ever accuse me of not having enough toys — so while I haven’t acquired many new pieces in the past year, there are still a few I’ve got my eye on that I hope to get one day….

Limits

February 26, 2012clients, philosophy, play, Read 12 Comments

Maybe it’s unfair of me, but I’m always amused when new clients offer up their “hard limits,” usually unsolicited, when requesting an appointment. Often they’ll say things like “no cross dressing” or “no scat,” which brings a “where did THAT come from?!” frown to my face since there’s nothing on my site to indicate that … Read More

What I Do

February 23, 2012dommes, Internet Finds, philosophy, Read 6 Comments

I’m trying to make more blog posts. I found this on Mistress Varla’s Tumblr.  It’s not too far off. I’d say my friends think I … jet set. Like, I’m always traveling, going out to fancy restaurants, that kind of thing. My family, most of them at least, think I have my own business (and … Read More

Help Wanted

February 16, 2012announcements, MaxFisch, philosophy, Read, wishlist 7 Comments

The thing about letting too much time go between posts is that at first you think you have nothing to say, and then you think there’s too much to say and then you go back and forth between those two until you start wondering why you’re blogging in the first place and thinking about maybe … Read More

Sweetheart

February 14, 2012announcements, good stuff, Read 1 Comment

My long-ago ex-boyfriend knew the rules: As long as he got my birthday right, he’d get a pass on every other (bullshit) holiday. Christmas, anniversaries, vacation-friendly holiday weekends…and most of all, Valentine’s Day. Ironically, of all of those, next to Christmas, which I haven’t participated in since I was 18, my least important holiday has … Read More

A Little Etiquette

November 6, 2011Read No Comments

There are more kinky posts brewing, I promise (see my recent Formspring replies for hints on what I’ll be writing about). But in the meantime, please familiarize yourself with the etiquette rules in this very charming little primer. http://shelovesny.com/etiquette/home.html I remember finding this thing *years* ago and  being so incredibly delighted by it: I know … Read More